Thursday 20 November 2014

“Don’t Die Old Die Empty”



Existentialism is a philosophical movement that focuses on two major themes, the analysis of human existence and the centrality of human choice. There is a convergence of many beliefs and an emergence of a belief that as human beings we are more than our brains and that we exist for more than just a biological and scientific reason. There is a sense that we are on the planet for something greater than ourselves and that somehow we have to make meaning of the chaos in a complex world. 

I read an article by Dr. Myles Munroe recently where he claimed that successful living was not “dying old but dying empty.” He questioned how many graveyards were filled with so much unrealized potential with those who did not come to know and live to their potential and purpose. I was struck by the strength and the truth of these words. Many of us work so hard to survive life till old age that we stop living life. The most impacting people on humanity are those who turned tragedy into triumph and those who came to learn that despite their pain, loss and oppression they could make a difference in life and make meaning out of their pain.  Nelson Mandela, Martin Luther King, Victor Frankl, Mahatma Gandhi, Joan of Arc, Maya Angelou, Rosa Parks and Amelia Earhart to name a few, are those who taught us how to use adversity as fuel to climb higher and go farther. These people did not die old they died empty – they did what they arrived on the planet to do and left a legacy of hope and change that will serve humanity for generations to come. We could probably add many inspiring human beings to this list from our own families and communities.

Growing up in an Apartheid S. Africa where value and privilege was given to you by the transcendence of your skin tone led me to use this oppressive and distorted experience to focus my life’s work on giving value and dignity to every human being I encounter while supporting them to come to know their true value and worth.  I want o die empty – making sure that I expended all my energy to make my world better and improve the quality of life for those who I am privileged to serve. 

If you are confused about why you are here and what your life is about, think about what is that “burr in your saddle” what is that thing that irritates you and frustrates you most? Is it injustice? Is it poverty? Is it a failing school system? Is it broken families? If it irritates you then you likely have the formula within you to respond to some or all of these issues. Refocus the energy of that irritation and let your potential be released in a way that will cause you to become a part of the solution – who knows along the way you may discover your life’s purpose and live your life so fully that you will not die old but you will die empty as you pour yourself out as a legacy for those who will come after you.